From Fictional Escapes to Personal Freedom: My Writing Journey

Writing has always been more than a hobby for me—it was my lifeline, my refuge, and my way of escaping a reality that often felt too overwhelming.

Growing up in a challenging home environment, with narcissistic parents and little emotional support, I often felt isolated and unheard. Writing fiction became my sanctuary. Through my stories, I created worlds where love, support, and kindness existed—worlds I wished I could experience in real life.

Writing as a Teen: A Journey of Escape

Between the ages of 13 and 17, I wrote four fictional romance novels. These weren’t just stories; they were escapes. My characters were strong, resilient women who found the kind of love and emotional support I longed for in my own life.

My writing process back then was simple yet deeply personal. I would draft story outlines in old diaries, carefully mapping out characters, plots, and twists. Then I would transform those outlines into full-fledged novels. Writing became a safe haven, a way to express emotions I couldn’t share with anyone else.

But while I loved writing, it wasn’t something my family encouraged. In fact, I was often discouraged and told that writing was a waste of time. One of the most painful moments came when my personal diary was stolen, and someone read it aloud to me. That experience left me humiliated and shattered my confidence. For years, I stopped writing altogether, afraid of being ridiculed again.

Finding Love and Healing

Life took a turn when I met my husband at the age of 29. He is everything I had dreamed of and more—a kind, supportive, and loving partner who truly understands me. His family embraced me with open arms, becoming the support system I had always needed but never had.

With their encouragement, I began to heal from the trauma of my childhood. For the first time in years, I felt safe enough to dream again, to write again. They reminded me that my voice mattered and that my stories had value.

Rediscovering My Passion for Writing

It wasn’t an easy journey back to writing. For years, I carried the fear of being judged or mocked. But in 2023, I finally reached a place where I felt ready to write again. The story I had been carrying in my heart for years, Breaking Free, finally came to life.

I wrote the entire book in just 16 weeks during the summer of 2023. Those months were a whirlwind of emotions—excitement, healing, and fulfillment. Writing Breaking Free wasn’t just about putting words on paper; it was about reclaiming my voice and telling the story I had always wanted to share.

Why Writing Matters to Me

Looking back, I realize that writing has been a constant thread in my life, even during the times I couldn’t actively pursue it. As a teenager, it gave me an escape from a difficult reality. Now, as an adult, it gives me a way to reflect, connect, and share my journey with others.

Through writing, I’ve learned that healing is possible. With the right people by your side—people who love and support you unconditionally—you can overcome even the deepest wounds. Writing is no longer just about creating fictional worlds; it’s about embracing my truth and using my words to inspire others who may feel as lost as I once did.

Keeping the Writing Habit Alive

Since publishing Breaking Free, I’ve made it a priority to keep my writing habit alive. Blogging has been an incredible way to stay connected to my craft and reflect on my journey. Each post is a reminder of how far I’ve come—not just as a writer, but as a person who overcame years of self-doubt and fear.

What Writing Has Taught Me

Writing has taught me so many lessons, but the most important one is this: your voice matters. Even if the world tries to silence you, even if you face setbacks and doubts, there is strength in your story.

For me, writing was about creating a safe space as a teenager. Today, it’s about celebrating how far I’ve come and connecting with others who may see a part of themselves in my journey.

What About You?

Have you ever rediscovered a passion or dream you thought was lost? Maybe it was a creative hobby, a goal you set aside, or something you’ve always wanted to pursue but didn’t feel ready for.

If so, I’d love to hear your story. Writing has taught me the power of perseverance, healing, and self-expression—and I believe that everyone has a story worth sharing.